Our Household Mediation Services

CountryWide Mediation was among the very first household mediation services
to be set up in the nation and it is now one of the foremost providers of family mediation in the South Croydon.

We have an unrivalled depth of understanding, skill and experience in solving problems and fixing conflict and disputes within households.

All members of our family mediation team are professionally certified (FMCA) through the Family Mediation Council.

We have our own devoted mediation premises in a quiet yet main location, with 3 mediation rooms, separate waiting locations, a reception location with extra seating and a back workplace.

We have the ability to offer very first meeting/ MIAMs consultations (for people) within 24hours and consultations for mediation meetings (for both parties), within 5 working days.

We supply both legally assisted and privately moneyed mediation covering all South Croydon.

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How can mediation assistance grandparents?

Among the unfortunate, and frequently unintended, concerns when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that children experience when they lose contact with grandparents, which grandparents can go through when they find they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Grandparents can offer an unique relationship to children. They have more time and persistence, and a different, more accepting viewpoint.

One million grandparents have no contact with grandchildren

The truth is that there are around one million grandparents in the UK who state they no longer have contact with their grandchildren– generally because of the divorce or separation of their own kids or some other family argument.

This is particularly disheartening as we all know that parents typically rely heavily on assistance from their own parents to look after their grandchildren. Some grandparents are far more hands on however, looking after the children for the entire day, every day, whilst moms and dads work.

According to Gransnet, the variety of grandparents looking after their grandchildren is increasing sharply, increasing by 49% given that 2009, however 99% of grandparent childminders stay overdue, saving the country around ₤ 17 billion in childcare.


It is easy to understand why loss of contact with grandkids can be heart-breaking for them and for the grandparents, who actually have no automated right to exposure to their grandchildren. It isn’t against the law for a moms and dad to refuse a grandparent contact with their grandchildren, and it may seem like there is nothing that grandparents can do to re-establish that contact, but there are a number of ways forward.

Mediation specialists can assist grandparents

The majority of grandparents will try to sort out issues themselves by approaching their kids to talk about the issues, but if this does not work, where should they turn? Mediation presents a specialist who is able to assist everyone, look at things in a different way and focus on what the children require rather than their differences. It is less adversarial than the traditional court route and can help to facilitate much better discussions, presenting calm and control, leading to arrangements that individuals can work with.

Mediation is usually very successful and both celebrations can straighten out misunderstandings, get a better understanding of why the relationship broke down and of each other’s expectations going forward.

Often, however, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then take a look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the kid’s benefits at heart and so will require grandparents to reveal that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a damaging impact on the wider household. Grandparents will likewise require to reveal that mediation has been tried prior to applying to court, or that there was a particular factor that it wasn’t.

If you are a grandparent who has lost contact with your grandchildren, for whatever reason, contact our mediation professionals now. We can discuss your own circumstance and encourage whether we feel that mediation can assist you and your family.

One of the unfortunate, and frequently unintended, concerns when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that children experience when they lose contact with grandparents, and that grandparents can go through when they discover they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. In some cases, nevertheless, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts always have the child’s finest interests at heart and so will need grandparents to reveal that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a damaging result on the wider household. Grandparents will also require to show that mediation has been attempted before applying to court, or that there was a specific reason that it wasn’t.

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Mediation is a structured, interactive process where an impartial third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. All participants in mediation are encouraged to actively participate in the process. Mediation is a “party-centered” process in that it is focused primarily upon the needs, rights, and interests of the parties. The mediator uses a wide variety of techniques to guide the process in a constructive direction and to help the parties find their optimal solution. A mediator is facilitative in that she/he manages the interaction between parties and facilitates open communication. Mediation is also evaluative in that the mediator analyzes issues and relevant norms (“reality-testing”), while refraining from providing prescriptive advice to the parties (e.g., “You should do…”).

Mediation, as used in law, is a form of alternative dispute resolution resolving disputes between two or more parties with concrete effects. Typically, a third party, the mediator, assists the parties to negotiate a settlement. Disputants may mediate disputes in a variety of domains, such as commercial, legal, diplomatic, workplace, community, and family matters.

The term mediation broadly refers to any instance in which a third party helps others reach an agreement. More specifically, mediation has a structure, timetable, and dynamics that “ordinary” negotiation lacks. The process is private and confidential, possibly enforced by law. Participation is typically voluntary. The mediator acts as a neutral third party and facilitates rather than directs the process. Mediation is becoming a more peaceful and internationally accepted solution to end the conflict. Mediation can be used to resolve disputes of any magnitude.

The term mediation, however, due to language as well as national legal standards and regulations is not identical in content in all countries but rather has specific connotations, and there are some differences between Anglo-Saxon definitions and other countries, especially countries with a civil, statutory law tradition.

Mediators use various techniques to open, or improve, dialogue and empathy between disputants, aiming to help the parties reach an agreement. Much depends on the mediator’s skill and training. As the practice gained popularity, training programs, certifications, and licensing followed, which produced trained and professional mediators committed to the discipline.

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