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We help households in conflict, specifically those separating or separating.

Our family mediation service is quicker and more cost-effective than heading to court. It decreases conflict, and your family remains in control of arrangements over kids, property and financing.

We work right throughout England and our family mediation service has more than thirty years’ experience providing professional, expert family mediation services.

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How can mediation aid grandparents?

One of the sad, and typically unintended, problems when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that kids experience when they lose contact with grandparents, which grandparents can go through when they discover they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Grandparents can provide an unique relationship to children. They have more time and perseverance, and a various, more accepting point of view.

One million grandparents have no contact with grandchildren

The reality is that there are around one million grandparents in the UK who say they no longer have contact with their grandchildren– more often than not because of the divorce or separation of their own children or some other household argument.

This is especially frustrating as all of us know that parents typically rely heavily on aid from their own moms and dads to take care of their grandchildren. In fact, 97% of moms and dads get some sort of assistance, according to Grandparentsplus. This might just be choosing the kids up from school, providing some food and keeping them occupied for an hour approximately till their moms and dads choose them up when they end up work. Some grandparents are much more hands on though, taking care of the kids for the whole day, every day, whilst moms and dads work.

According to Gransnet, the number of grandparents looking after their grandchildren is increasing sharply, increasing by 49% given that 2009, however 99% of grandparent childminders stay unsettled, conserving the country around ₤ 17 billion in child care.


It is easy to understand why loss of contact with grandkids can be heart-breaking for them and for the grandparents, who actually have no automatic right to contact with their grandchildren. It isn’t against the law for a moms and dad to refuse a grandparent contact with their grandchildren, and it may seem like there is absolutely nothing that grandparents can do to re-establish that contact, but there are a number of ways forward.

Mediation professionals can help grandparents

A lot of grandparents will attempt to figure out issues themselves by approaching their kids to discuss the issues, however if this does not work, where should they turn? Family feuds can currently be heated up, and blame is frequently part of the argument. Lawsuits, and court, is often not the best way forward and can in fact fuel the fire. It is also pricey and can take a long time. Mediation presents an expert who is able to assist everybody, take a look at things in a different way and focus on what the children require instead of their differences. It is less adversarial than the conventional court path and can assist to facilitate much better conversations, presenting calm and control, resulting in agreements that people can work with.

Mediation is usually very successful and both parties can settle misconceptions, get a better understanding of why the relationship broke down and of each other’s expectations going forward.

In some cases, nevertheless, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the child’s benefits at heart therefore will require grandparents to show that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a detrimental impact on the larger family. Grandparents will likewise need to reveal that mediation has actually been tried prior to applying to court, or that there was a specific reason that it wasn’t.

If you are a grandparent who has lost contact with your grandchildren, for whatever reason, contact our mediation professionals now. We can discuss your own situation and recommend whether we feel that mediation can assist you and your household.

One of the sad, and often unintended, concerns when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that children experience when they lose contact with grandparents, and that grandparents can go through when they discover they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Sometimes, nevertheless, mediation does not work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the kid’s finest interests at heart and so will require grandparents to reveal that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a damaging impact on the broader household. Grandparents will likewise require to reveal that mediation has been tried prior to applying to court, or that there was a particular reason that it wasn’t.

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Mediation is a structured, interactive process where an impartial third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. All participants in mediation are encouraged to actively participate in the process. Mediation is a “party-centered” process in that it is focused primarily upon the needs, rights, and interests of the parties. The mediator uses a wide variety of techniques to guide the process in a constructive direction and to help the parties find their optimal solution. A mediator is facilitative in that she/he manages the interaction between parties and facilitates open communication. Mediation is also evaluative in that the mediator analyzes issues and relevant norms (“reality-testing”), while refraining from providing prescriptive advice to the parties (e.g., “You should do…”).

Mediation, as used in law, is a form of alternative dispute resolution resolving disputes between two or more parties with concrete effects. Typically, a third party, the mediator, assists the parties to negotiate a settlement. Disputants may mediate disputes in a variety of domains, such as commercial, legal, diplomatic, workplace, community, and family matters.

The term mediation broadly refers to any instance in which a third party helps others reach an agreement. More specifically, mediation has a structure, timetable, and dynamics that “ordinary” negotiation lacks. The process is private and confidential, possibly enforced by law. Participation is typically voluntary. The mediator acts as a neutral third party and facilitates rather than directs the process. Mediation is becoming a more peaceful and internationally accepted solution to end the conflict. Mediation can be used to resolve disputes of any magnitude.

The term mediation, however, due to language as well as national legal standards and regulations is not identical in content in all countries but rather has specific connotations, and there are some differences between Anglo-Saxon definitions and other countries, especially countries with a civil, statutory law tradition.

Mediators use various techniques to open, or improve, dialogue and empathy between disputants, aiming to help the parties reach an agreement. Much depends on the mediator’s skill and training. As the practice gained popularity, training programs, certifications, and licensing followed, which produced trained and professional mediators committed to the discipline.

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