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How can mediation aid grandparents?

One of the unfortunate, and often unexpected, issues when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that kids experience when they lose contact with grandparents, which grandparents can go through when they find they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Grandparents can provide an unique relationship to children. They have more time and perseverance, and a different, more accepting viewpoint.

One million grandparents have no contact with grandchildren

The truth is that there are around one million grandparents in the UK who say they no longer have contact with their grandchildren– more often than not because of the divorce or separation of their own kids or some other family argument.

This is particularly frustrating as we all understand that parents frequently rely greatly on assistance from their own parents to take care of their grandchildren. 97% of moms and dads get some sort of assistance, according to Grandparentsplus. This may just be choosing the kids up from school, providing some food and keeping them occupied for an hour or two till their parents select them up when they complete work. Some grandparents are even more hands on however, caring for the children for the entire day, every day, whilst moms and dads work.

According to Gransnet, the variety of grandparents caring for their grandchildren is increasing sharply, increasing by 49% considering that 2009, however 99% of grandparent childminders remain overdue, saving the nation around ₤ 17 billion in childcare.


It is easy to understand why loss of contact with grandkids can be heart-breaking for them and for the grandparents, who really have no automatic right to exposure to their grandchildren. It isn’t against the law for a parent to refuse a grandparent contact with their grandchildren, and it might appear like there is absolutely nothing that grandparents can do to re-establish that contact, but there are a variety of ways forward.

Mediation specialists can assist grandparents

Most grandparents will try to sort out problems themselves by approaching their children to go over the problems, but if this doesn’t work, where should they turn? Family feuds can currently be heated up, and blame is often part of the argument. Litigation, and court, is typically not the best way forward and can actually sustain the fire. It is also costly and can take a long period of time. Mediation introduces a professional who has the ability to help everybody, look at things in a different way and concentrate on what the kids require rather than their differences. It is less adversarial than the conventional court path and can assist to facilitate better discussions, presenting calm and control, resulting in arrangements that individuals can work with.

Mediation is usually very successful and both parties can straighten out misunderstandings, get a better understanding of why the relationship broke down and of each other’s expectations going forward.

Often, nevertheless, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the kid’s benefits at heart therefore will need grandparents to show that they did have a meaningful relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost which re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and won’t have a destructive impact on the wider household. Grandparents will also require to show that mediation has actually been tried before applying to court, or that there was a specific factor that it wasn’t.

If you are a grandparent who has lost contact with your grandchildren, for whatever factor, contact our mediation experts now. We can discuss your own scenario and advise whether we feel that mediation can assist you and your family.

One of the unfortunate, and typically unexpected, issues when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that kids experience when they lose contact with grandparents, and that grandparents can go through when they find they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Sometimes, nevertheless, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts always have the child’s best interests at heart and so will need grandparents to reveal that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a harmful impact on the larger family. Grandparents will also require to reveal that mediation has actually been tried before applying to court, or that there was a specific factor that it wasn’t.

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Mediation is a structured, interactive process where an impartial third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. All participants in mediation are encouraged to actively participate in the process. Mediation is a “party-centered” process in that it is focused primarily upon the needs, rights, and interests of the parties. The mediator uses a wide variety of techniques to guide the process in a constructive direction and to help the parties find their optimal solution. A mediator is facilitative in that she/he manages the interaction between parties and facilitates open communication. Mediation is also evaluative in that the mediator analyzes issues and relevant norms (“reality-testing”), while refraining from providing prescriptive advice to the parties (e.g., “You should do…”).

Mediation, as used in law, is a form of alternative dispute resolution resolving disputes between two or more parties with concrete effects. Typically, a third party, the mediator, assists the parties to negotiate a settlement. Disputants may mediate disputes in a variety of domains, such as commercial, legal, diplomatic, workplace, community, and family matters.

The term mediation broadly refers to any instance in which a third party helps others reach an agreement. More specifically, mediation has a structure, timetable, and dynamics that “ordinary” negotiation lacks. The process is private and confidential, possibly enforced by law. Participation is typically voluntary. The mediator acts as a neutral third party and facilitates rather than directs the process. Mediation is becoming a more peaceful and internationally accepted solution to end the conflict. Mediation can be used to resolve disputes of any magnitude.

The term mediation, however, due to language as well as national legal standards and regulations is not identical in content in all countries but rather has specific connotations, and there are some differences between Anglo-Saxon definitions and other countries, especially countries with a civil, statutory law tradition.

Mediators use various techniques to open, or improve, dialogue and empathy between disputants, aiming to help the parties reach an agreement. Much depends on the mediator’s skill and training. As the practice gained popularity, training programs, certifications, and licensing followed, which produced trained and professional mediators committed to the discipline.

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