Our Household Mediation Providers

CountryWide Mediation was among the very first household mediation services
to be established in the country and it is now among the foremost providers of household mediation in the Falmouth.

We have an incomparable depth of knowledge, ability and experience in solving and fixing issues conflict and disagreements within households.

All members of our family mediation team are expertly certified (FMCA) through the Family Mediation Council.

We have our own dedicated mediation facilities in a quiet yet main area, with 3 mediation rooms, separate waiting areas, a reception area with additional seating and a back office.

We have the ability to use first conference/ MIAMs consultations (for people) within 24hours and consultations for mediation meetings (for both celebrations), within 5 working days.

We provide both legally assisted and privately moneyed mediation covering all Falmouth.

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How can mediation help grandparents?

Among the unfortunate, and typically unintentional, issues when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that children experience when they lose contact with grandparents, and that grandparents can go through when they find they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Grandparents can provide a special relationship to children. They have more time and patience, and a different, more accepting perspective.

One million grandparents have no contact with grandchildren

The reality is that there are around one million grandparents in the UK who state they no longer have contact with their grandchildren– most of the time because of the divorce or separation of their own children or some other household argument.

This is particularly discouraging as we all know that moms and dads frequently rely heavily on assistance from their own moms and dads to look after their grandchildren. Some grandparents are far more hands on however, looking after the kids for the entire day, every day, whilst moms and dads work.

According to Gransnet, the variety of grandparents taking care of their grandchildren is rising greatly, increasing by 49% since 2009, however 99% of grandparent childminders stay unsettled, saving the nation around ₤ 17 billion in childcare.


It is easy to understand why loss of contact with grandkids can be heart-breaking for them and for the grandparents, who actually have no automated right to contact with their grandchildren. It isn’t against the law for a moms and dad to decline a grandparent contact with their grandchildren, and it may seem like there is absolutely nothing that grandparents can do to re-establish that contact, however there are a variety of methods forward.

Mediation specialists can help grandparents

Many grandparents will attempt to arrange out problems themselves by approaching their children to go over the issues, however if this does not work, where should they turn? Mediation presents a specialist who is able to assist everybody, look at things in a different way and focus on what the children need rather than their distinctions. It is less adversarial than the conventional court route and can assist to help with better conversations, presenting calm and control, leading to agreements that people can work with.

Mediation is generally very successful and both celebrations can iron out misconceptions, get a much better understanding of why the relationship broke down and of each other’s expectations moving forward.

Sometimes, nevertheless, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the child’s benefits at heart therefore will need grandparents to show that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild prior to contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a destructive effect on the wider household. Grandparents will also require to reveal that mediation has actually been tried prior to applying to court, or that there was a particular reason that it wasn’t.

If you are a grandparent who has actually lost contact with your grandchildren, for whatever factor, call our mediation specialists now. We can discuss your own situation and encourage whether we feel that mediation can help you and your household.

One of the sad, and frequently unexpected, problems when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that children experience when they lose contact with grandparents, and that grandparents can go through when they find they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Often, nevertheless, mediation does not work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the child’s best interests at heart and so will require grandparents to reveal that they did have a meaningful relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and will not have a destructive effect on the larger household. Grandparents will also need to show that mediation has been tried before using to court, or that there was a specific reason that it wasn’t.

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Mediation is a structured, interactive process where an impartial third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. All participants in mediation are encouraged to actively participate in the process. Mediation is a “party-centered” process in that it is focused primarily upon the needs, rights, and interests of the parties. The mediator uses a wide variety of techniques to guide the process in a constructive direction and to help the parties find their optimal solution. A mediator is facilitative in that she/he manages the interaction between parties and facilitates open communication. Mediation is also evaluative in that the mediator analyzes issues and relevant norms (“reality-testing”), while refraining from providing prescriptive advice to the parties (e.g., “You should do… .”).

Mediation, as used in law, is a form of alternative dispute resolution resolving disputes between two or more parties with concrete effects. Typically, a third party, the mediator, assists the parties to negotiate a settlement. Disputants may mediate disputes in a variety of domains, such as commercial, legal, diplomatic, workplace, community, and family matters.

The term “mediation” broadly refers to any instance in which a third party helps others reach an agreement. More specifically, mediation has a structure, timetable, and dynamics that “ordinary” negotiation lacks. The process is private and confidential, possibly enforced by law. Participation is typically voluntary. The mediator acts as a neutral third party and facilitates rather than directs the process. Mediation is becoming a more peaceful and internationally accepted solution to end the conflict. Mediation can be used to resolve disputes of any magnitude.

The term “mediation,” however, due to language as well as national legal standards and regulations is not identical in content in all countries but rather has specific connotations, and there are some differences between Anglo-Saxon definitions and other countries, especially countries with a civil, statutory law tradition.

Mediators use various techniques to open, or improve, dialogue and empathy between disputants, aiming to help the parties reach an agreement. Much depends on the mediator’s skill and training. As the practice gained popularity, training programs, certifications, and licensing followed, which produced trained and professional mediators committed to the discipline.

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