Our Household Mediation Solutions

CountryWide Mediation was among the first family mediation services
to be set up in the country and it is now among the foremost companies of household mediation in the Amesbury.

We have an unrivalled depth of understanding, skill and experience in fixing problems and dealing with conflict and conflicts within families.

All members of our household mediation group are expertly certified (FMCA) through the Family Mediation Council.

We have our own dedicated mediation facilities in a peaceful yet central area, with 3 mediation rooms, different waiting locations, a reception area with extra seating and a back office.

We have the ability to provide very first conference/ MIAMs appointments (for individuals) within 24hours and visits for mediation conferences (for both celebrations), within 5 working days.

We provide both legally assisted and independently moneyed mediation covering all Amesbury.

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How can mediation aid grandparents?

Among the sad, and often unintentional, problems when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that kids experience when they lose contact with grandparents, which grandparents can go through when they discover they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Grandparents can provide a special relationship to kids. They have more time and perseverance, and a different, more accepting perspective.

One million grandparents have no contact with grandchildren

The truth is that there are around one million grandparents in the UK who say they no longer have contact with their grandchildren– usually because of the divorce or separation of their own kids or some other household argument.

This is especially discouraging as we all know that parents typically rely heavily on assistance from their own moms and dads to look after their grandchildren. Some grandparents are far more hands on though, looking after the kids for the whole day, every day, whilst parents work.

According to Gransnet, the number of grandparents caring for their grandchildren is rising greatly, increasing by 49% considering that 2009, however 99% of grandparent childminders remain overdue, conserving the country around ₤ 17 billion in child care.


It is easy to understand why loss of contact with grandkids can be heart-breaking for them and for the grandparents, who actually have no automated right to contact with their grandchildren. It isn’t against the law for a parent to refuse a grandparent contact with their grandchildren, and it may look like there is nothing that grandparents can do to re-establish that contact, but there are a number of ways forward.

Mediation specialists can assist grandparents

Most grandparents will attempt to sort out concerns themselves by approaching their kids to discuss the issues, however if this doesn’t work, where should they turn? Family feuds can already be heated up, and blame is typically part of the argument. Lawsuits, and court, is typically not the best method forward and can really sustain the fire. It is likewise pricey and can take a very long time. Mediation introduces a specialist who is able to assist everybody, take a look at things differently and concentrate on what the kids require instead of their distinctions. It is less adversarial than the conventional court route and can help to facilitate much better discussions, introducing calm and control, causing agreements that people can deal with.

Mediation is usually very successful and both celebrations can iron out misconceptions, get a better understanding of why the relationship broke down and of each other’s expectations moving forward.

In some cases, however, mediation does not work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts constantly have the child’s benefits at heart and so will need grandparents to show that they did have a meaningful relationship with the grandchild before contact was lost which re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and won’t have a detrimental effect on the broader household. Grandparents will also require to reveal that mediation has actually been attempted prior to applying to court, or that there was a specific reason that it wasn’t.

If you are a grandparent who has lost contact with your grandchildren, for whatever factor, contact our mediation professionals now. We can discuss your own circumstance and encourage whether we feel that mediation can help you and your household.

One of the sad, and frequently unexpected, issues when a relationship breaks down, is the suffering that children experience when they lose contact with grandparents, and that grandparents can go through when they find they are no longer part of their grandchildren’s lives. Often, however, mediation doesn’t work, and grandparents can then look at making an application to court for a child-arrangements order. Courts always have the child’s finest interests at heart and so will require grandparents to show that they did have a significant relationship with the grandchild prior to contact was lost and that re-establishing it will benefit the grandchild and won’t have a detrimental effect on the broader household. Grandparents will also require to reveal that mediation has been attempted prior to applying to court, or that there was a specific factor that it wasn’t.

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Mediation is a structured, interactive process where an impartial third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. All participants in mediation are encouraged to actively participate in the process. Mediation is a “party-centered” process in that it is focused primarily upon the needs, rights, and interests of the parties. The mediator uses a wide variety of techniques to guide the process in a constructive direction and to help the parties find their optimal solution. A mediator is facilitative in that she/he manages the interaction between parties and facilitates open communication. Mediation is also evaluative in that the mediator analyzes issues and relevant norms (“reality-testing”), while refraining from providing prescriptive advice to the parties (e.g., “You should do…”).

Mediation, as used in law, is a form of alternative dispute resolution resolving disputes between two or more parties with concrete effects. Typically, a third party, the mediator, assists the parties to negotiate a settlement. Disputants may mediate disputes in a variety of domains, such as commercial, legal, diplomatic, workplace, community, and family matters.

The term mediation broadly refers to any instance in which a third party helps others reach an agreement. More specifically, mediation has a structure, timetable, and dynamics that “ordinary” negotiation lacks. The process is private and confidential, possibly enforced by law. Participation is typically voluntary. The mediator acts as a neutral third party and facilitates rather than directs the process. Mediation is becoming a more peaceful and internationally accepted solution to end the conflict. Mediation can be used to resolve disputes of any magnitude.

The term mediation, however, due to language as well as national legal standards and regulations is not identical in content in all countries but rather has specific connotations, and there are some differences between Anglo-Saxon definitions and other countries, especially countries with a civil, statutory law tradition.

Mediators use various techniques to open, or improve, dialogue and empathy between disputants, aiming to help the parties reach an agreement. Much depends on the mediator’s skill and training. As the practice gained popularity, training programs, certifications, and licensing followed, which produced trained and professional mediators committed to the discipline.

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